I would prefer to be looked after by family, but I am not sure I would wish that on them, neither would I like to be in a care home .. so I am right up the creek without a paddle ...
Same as LIz, I would prefer to stay with my family, however, it would not be fair on them, it is pretty daunting and very difficult caring for someone with dementia, sometimes nursing home is the only viable option, before the whole family cracks