I have been in a position of having a loved one in a nursing home and being a carer at the same time and found I had everything I needed right here, because forums like chill4us are open 24/7 and other types of groups have set time and date to meet which don't suit everyone.
This is why
http://www.computers4carers.co.uk is so important, getting donated laptop/computers so carers can then access the Internet.