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We are top of the housing list and yesterday bidding opened and there were new build disabled flats. Now the problem... No pets . Dudley is my sanity when depression makes me want to give up. I put the bid in then sobbed on the phone to the homemove people. We find out next week if we will be offered a flat. My head tells me we need to move but my heart wants to stay here with Dudley. I'm a mess right now- to top it off we have no night care for three weeks and marks sister reduced her hours.

Hope you will be able to find a solution
h###u
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What a dilemma, Debz, I would have the same problem, so I can empathise. Hope it works out for you.xx

What a difficult decision debz. Unusual that they don't accept pets. Thinking of you and wishing I could help with your night care xxxx

That is a difficult one Debz, how would the move affect Mark?

Mark would be able to have the special wheelchair he needs which he can't have here as not enough room. I would lose the neighbourly support and help . Just not sure I could give up Dudley ....

That is a lot to lose, Dudley and neighbourly support, are they no other options of properties that are big enough for special wheelchair for Mark so you could at least keep the cat.

what an awful dilemma, you will have to keep asking your angel for the answers.

Dudley is allowed to come!! I'm so happy xx

That is excellent news debz, so pleased for you all.

I should think so too..................... f4o33

That is brilliant news Debz, I am so pleased for you h###u .

I am so relieved for you Debz, such good news ! Please give Dudley a cuddle for me

xxx Liz

That's great news Debzxxx

Great news Debz.
So happy for you
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I am so thrilled. I was so worried for you and dudley.

Liv was distraught for you and wanted to look after dudley for you!

I think we would have started a petition for dudley to be allowed to go with you!

Huge hugs dear Debz

xxxxx

Thank you everyone. Even if I don't have many family and friends supporting me I know I have everyone here xx

we would help you pack if we could
I wish I could anyway
xxx

We are always here for each other. Like you I don't know what I would do without everyone here. Good luck packing. Bit far for me to come and help xx