Might be moving home ...

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Postby debzsanderson » 06 Aug 2015, 19:59

We are top of the housing list and yesterday bidding opened and there were new build disabled flats. Now the problem... No pets . Dudley is my sanity when depression makes me want to give up. I put the bid in then sobbed on the phone to the homemove people. We find out next week if we will be offered a flat. My head tells me we need to move but my heart wants to stay here with Dudley. I'm a mess right now- to top it off we have no night care for three weeks and marks sister reduced her hours.
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Postby Honey » 07 Aug 2015, 00:45

Hope you will be able to find a solution
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Postby annie » 07 Aug 2015, 09:06

What a dilemma, Debz, I would have the same problem, so I can empathise. Hope it works out for you.xx
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Postby JaneJ » 07 Aug 2015, 09:18

What a difficult decision debz. Unusual that they don't accept pets. Thinking of you and wishing I could help with your night care xxxx
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Postby maureenho » 07 Aug 2015, 10:04

That is a difficult one Debz, how would the move affect Mark?
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Postby debzsanderson » 07 Aug 2015, 10:21

Mark would be able to have the special wheelchair he needs which he can't have here as not enough room. I would lose the neighbourly support and help . Just not sure I could give up Dudley ....
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Postby maureenho » 07 Aug 2015, 10:25

That is a lot to lose, Dudley and neighbourly support, are they no other options of properties that are big enough for special wheelchair for Mark so you could at least keep the cat.
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Postby wendy » 07 Aug 2015, 10:36

what an awful dilemma, you will have to keep asking your angel for the answers.
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Postby debzsanderson » 07 Aug 2015, 14:54

Dudley is allowed to come!! I'm so happy xx
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Postby maureenho » 07 Aug 2015, 15:27

That is excellent news debz, so pleased for you all.
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Postby wendy » 07 Aug 2015, 16:00

I should think so too..................... f4o33
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Postby Rosalind » 07 Aug 2015, 16:39

That is brilliant news Debz, I am so pleased for you h###u .
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Postby chenrezig » 07 Aug 2015, 18:24

I am so relieved for you Debz, such good news ! Please give Dudley a cuddle for me

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Postby annie » 07 Aug 2015, 18:57

That's great news Debzxxx
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Postby Honey » 07 Aug 2015, 23:27

Great news Debz.
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Postby JaneJ » 08 Aug 2015, 09:14

I am so thrilled. I was so worried for you and dudley.

Liv was distraught for you and wanted to look after dudley for you!

I think we would have started a petition for dudley to be allowed to go with you!

Huge hugs dear Debz

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Postby debzsanderson » 08 Aug 2015, 10:35

Thank you everyone. Even if I don't have many family and friends supporting me I know I have everyone here xx
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Postby wendy » 08 Aug 2015, 10:43

we would help you pack if we could
I wish I could anyway
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Postby JaneJ » 08 Aug 2015, 12:57

We are always here for each other. Like you I don't know what I would do without everyone here. Good luck packing. Bit far for me to come and help xx
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