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I'm struggling and feeling very low again. Just had phone call to say our night carer has no car and it may be at least two months befor she can afford a new one and come back to us.That comes after a week of Marks health declining again. Last weekend took all day and four phone calls to nhs 111 to send someone out. Had doctor out again Tuesday and yet another UTI . Marks sister goes away soon for over a week and the other agency are still messing us around. That's why I haven't been around very much xx

I am sorry to read this Debz, thinking of you
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So sorry Debs to read this.
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You must be at the end of your tether with this.

Is there no other way the agency can sort out temporary transport for her or some sort of service? They ought to have contingency plans for this.

I am so sorry you are going through all this again. You must feel like it is never ending.

wish i could help in a practical way but am sending you lots of hugs and support

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Sorry to hear that Debz, when Mark's sister have time off it makes it more difficult for you, most of the agencies are same, they can't get decent staff as the pay them peanuts so when their transport goes wrong they can't afford to replace, it's a vicious circle.

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How are you doing?

Thank you for caring - I just do a day at a time. I need a break - I don't mean anywhere exotic like his sister who is going to Turkey and his mum going to France. I just need time to think and be me. I am emotionally exhausted from constantly worrying.

I know the feeling Debz about a holiday I could do with a couple of days by myself to recharge my batteries

Thinking of you

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Thinking of you Debz, hope you can manage some kind of break,
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