A carer in Norfolk is waiting for an emergency hernia operation.
He is the main carer for his wife who has severe dementia and does not know who he is.
When he phoned social services to arrange for somewhere for his wife to be cared for whilst he is in hospital and receiving care after, he was told that social services cannot get involved until he has the date for his op.
Bearing in mind he could be called in tomorrow or very soon.
He is seeing their gp tomorrow and is hoping that he will make them see common sense.
His wife could be sent anywhere and he would not have the opportunity to visit before her admission.
Isn't this stupid?