A thought when the caring role has ended and the estate is being dealt with and something that the caring community should discuss....
if you are working full time as a carer unpaid for a family member and look at claiming from the estate during probate one could reasonably ask for a minumum wage £6.50 (2014 rates) 24 hours over 365 days
=£ 56940 a year, but ! this would shock the other family members but when I put this to a solicitor he seemed to think this was reasonable. Especially when you had no other income other than carers allowance.
And looks reasonable if you look at care home costs £600 per week *52 weeks a year = £31200
I did not follow this route but claimed all my expenses and costs that came from my account, which was accepted by solicitor.